| Location | Birmingham |
| Age | 60 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 23/10/1943 |
| Date of Death | 30/04/2004 |
| Visitors | 5,094 since 14/02/2009 |
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My Dad
Raised me on my own, with the help of my paternal grandparents. after my mother left me when I was 3.
There are no words that explain the bond we had. And I was a proper Daddys girl, if I had been naughty I just had to smile and daddy would always let me get away with it.
When he got bowel cancer in the January of 2004. we weren't to worried as he had it before in the December of 1981,and after surgery was givern the all clear.
How wrong we were.
At the end of March we were told that it had spread to his lungs, kidneys, liver and prostate. and there was no more they could do his care would just be pallative, his life expectancy now was limited it could be days, weeks, but not months.
he tried to be brave for me and said he wasn't worried, but I could tell he was terrified.
With the help of a good docter we managed to get him into St Mary hospice in the middle of April.
I visited him every day,taking in his faverite meals.
he slept with his mobile under his pillow so he could be the last one to say goodnight and the first one to say good morning to me.
On the 26th of April he didn't call to say good morning at 7. like he normally did, I already knew why and spent the morning crying while i got the kids ready for school.At eight the hospice rang and said my dads time had come and it was proberly just hours away.
I went straight there and didn't leave till he passed at 9 pm on the 30th. when his time came I lay on the bed next to him and held him in my arms,telling him not to be scared or worried because i was there.He took his last breath lying on my chest with me strokeing his hair and kissing the top of his head like he had done to me so many times when i was little and scared. LOVE YOU DAD. I HOPE I MAKE YOU PROUD XX
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❊ ﾟ LOVE ALWAYS,JUDE. XX ﾟ❊
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A golden heart stopped beating
Two smiling eyes at rest
God broke your family's hearts to prove to them
He only takes the best.
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♥......... I'm sending a pillow of happy thoughts to create wonderful dreams, a blanket of care to comfort you all night and a prayer to protect you until morning light. .........love Jude. x x........♥
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God saw you getting tired
and a cure was not to be.
So he put his arms around you
and whispered "Come to Me".
A golden heart stopped beating,
hard working hands now rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best
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One little snowflake falls on my nose.
It makes me shiver from my head to my toes.
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Two little snowflakes get in my eyes.
Blink! Blink! What a surprise!
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Three little snowflakes melt on my tongue.
I eat them up. Yum! Yum! Yum!
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Four little snowflakes tickle my chin.
I laugh. I jump. I run. I spin.
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I stop, and I put out my hand.
Five little snowflakes softly land.
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Snow on the house. Snow on the tree.
Snow on the ground. Snow on me!
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Millions of snowflakes in my hair.
Snowflakes falling everywhere!
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MERRY CHRISTMAS ANGEL
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LOVE KARYN .X X
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MERRY CHRISTMAS ANGEL
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LOVE JUDE.X X
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Have you ever lost someone you loved who was very dear to you?
One who you loved so much and miss them like I do,
Have you ever had a headache too painful to bear?
And shed those bitter tears that fall like the rain,
If you never had that feeling,
I'll pray you never do,
For when God takes the ones you love,
He takes a part of you.
KEEP MY MEMORY
Keep my memory with you,
For memories never die.
I will be there with you,
When you look across the sky.
I will be there in the clouds,
In the birds that fill the air.
In the beauty of a fragrant rose,
You will find my memory there.
You will feel me in the tenderness,
Of a tiny baby's touch.
You will hear me if you listen,
In the twilight's gentle hush.
When your hearts are heavy,
And you feel that you are alone.
Just reach down deep inside of you,
For your heart is now my home.
I will always be with you,
I will never go away.
For I will live on in your hearts,
Forever and a day
Anon
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This little sunshine angel
I send to you tonight,
To keep you snug and warm
Until the morning light.
This little sunshine angel
Never goes to sleep,
Always watching in your dreams
Shut your eyes now, don't you peep.
For lots of busy things
Are on angels agenda,
Spinning golden sunbeams
But also to remember....
Your pillow will not fall
And rugs be pulled up tight,
Chasing away the boogie men
Ah what a busy night.
And while the wings are whirling
They'll brush those cobwebs down,
You'll never know the secret love
Because there's not a sound...
The wind could be pushed on by
Smog blown away by dawn,
And maybe taking time
To comfort one forlorn.
Just know that when you wake
And you are safe and well,
That the little sunshine angel
Did more than you can tell.
Soft Whispers from
Derry's Heart Poems
2003 used with permission
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Love Jude. x x
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